Then getting older the resolutions just became more harsh, I'll change how I look or I'll change myself. Back then I wish someone was there to shout noooo!
This year I'm making no resolutions not one. The last few years have been hard and taught me so much about life and myself and who I am and who I'll always be. We don't just change and why should we. Why should we tell ourselves that we are not okay and that we need to make resolutions to alter our life and what we do and what we are. If your unhappy of course there are ways of changing that, and that's great that's what we should be doing - looking at what is making us unhappy or what is holding us back from our hopes our dreams and our happiness. So cut crap out your life, get rid of the negative, walk away from your failures and from people who don't appreciate you and that don't make your everyday better simply because they are in it. Life is short, it's fleeting, 2016 will be here soon enough and there is nothing worse then thinking oh shame on me as I didn't follow those resolutions through.
No! Instead by next year - you should be saying - I'm glad I embraced me. I'm glad I bettered myself - make decisions for your happiness, hold close your loved ones, leave the bad ones, work in a job that makes you happy that you wake up everyday thinking yeah I'm alright with going in today. Study. Learn. Take opportunities and learn to accept yourself flaws and all and spend time on those that know all your flaws and still love you regardless.
Take risks! Say yes more. Say no more and don't question something or adapt to what others think is right. Follow your heart. Treasure your mind. And make memories.
So scrap that resolution list. Take each day as it comes and do what you have to do. But if you do one thing - be kind, to yourself, to those around you and to your life.
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