There is enough going on in a girls life, rather than having to worry about going at war with eachother, there is nothing I hate more than bitchiness, us girls should stick together, we are all the same, we all have the same insecurities, bringing eachother down is horrible and pointless, instead smile at eachother, compliment eachother, and if you have a problem tell the girl, don't degrade or play games. If girls spent more time being nice instead of horrible the world would be a happier place ;)
Love your friends
In your life, you will have friends come and go, but there will always be a select few who are your soul mates, your sisters. Cherish your nearest and dearest, when the party is over they are the ones who are around. They are the people who will understand you the most, who will know you inside out and all your faults and still love you for it, treat them carefully, they are fragile, appreciate them, and always let them know how must you love them. You need them as much as they need you, and when you cant stand yourself they will. Never make them feel forgotten, whether you have a boyfriend, a baby or are not as close by anymore.
Men are not your life
Men are no way the be all and end all of life. Men are nice, you will love a man at some point in your life, you may love a few, but don't let men control your life. Don't waste time crying over boys. One day you will find a man who cuts the bullshit out, you will know when hes the one, so until then, drop the boys out your life and spend all that love on yourself instead. It's okay to be single. If you are sad about not finding your prince, have fun kissing frogs until you do ;)
Celebrate your Success
Its more than okay to be proud of your achievements, don't hold back on celebrating your own success. Scream it from the rooftops, tell yourself your amazing. Pat yourself on the back. Bask in the good you have done.
Live your life
No matter what age you are by number.. never forget what it feels like to be young and alive. Live your life for you, not anybody else, you get one life, so fill it in every way you want to and can. People are always going to talk, so do what you have to do, you may as-well give them something worthy to talk about. Life's to short, don't waste it worrying or stressing, chances are your worries are minor and your stresses are over things that may never happen.
Getting absolutely wasted on too many shots with your friends on a Saturday night - does not make you an alcoholic, it makes you - alive. Having a good time is not a crime. Let loose, go wild, drink way to many sambucas - Your young once, your carefree once, one day you may not be able to do all these things, so make the most of these years.
Regret nothing
In life you are going to make many mistakes. The wrong job, the wrong degree, the wrong boyfriends, the wrong choices. Everything happens how its meant to happen. You will learn something from every mistake you make, and you will come back better and stronger. Embrace it, and don't be scared to take risks and go with whats right at the time. Never fret over the past, it shapes our future.
Choose your company wisely
Don't keep company with those who make you feel like rubbish. You don't need people who compare themselves to you, or who make you feel your rubbish or in-debted to them. [People who love you for you, and enhance your life are those you need around. Remember you can pick who you have in your life, and getting a good team is the best thing you can ever do.
Travel
Travel while you can, while you have nothing holding you back, no children or mortgages or husband, get out there, see the world, let it change and shape you, trust me once you travel you will always travel, it is the most rewarding and amazing thing in life, and will bring you things you never knew were possible.
Stuff the Diet
Diets are not natural. Embrace them curves and eat that cheeseburger, if you spent more time loving your body and looking at your positives you may be a happier person, besides eating what you like is funner, and its your body ;)
So all my female friends, what are your rules you stand by? Feel free to share! And remember these rules :)
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